We met at the beginning of my freshman year of college at a mutual friend's house party. Our mutual friend is actually his BFF. I pretty much had a crush on him from that day, but he went to a school about 4 hours away and was also like 2 years ahead of me in school. We'd see each other every now and again when he would come up and we were fairly friendly to each other, but I really don't think he noticed me that much outside of being a younger friend of a friend. Over the 4 years we became friendlier, exchanging numbers and chatting on occasion. I always crushed on him, but with him being so far away I had other male interests at school ;-). We always flirted a little but nothing too major. Then comes my senior year. He's now living back in his hometown which was about 2 hours from my school. One random weekend a month before graduation he comes in town and hits me up. I actually had some time so I met him and some of our friends at a bar downtown. As we were catching up something kind of changed between us and we clicked in a totally different way than before. There was a party at another bar later that night so we agreed to meet up again there.
At the next party we did some major flirting and as the night went on he couldn't keep his hands off me.. not that I could blame him, I looked pretty damn hot that night. We were quite drunk by the end of the night and I ended up going home with him.. (such a little fast tail I know).. now mind you we have never even so much as kissed prior to this night. BTW-he is a great kisser!!
So fast forward to a couple days later.. I'm on my way back to school from visiting my mom and we're talking.. I'm a little foggy on the exact words of the hour long conversation (this was 3 years ago) but the basic gist was this: him: "I had such a great time the other night... I never thought you liked me in that way after all this time... I really enjoyed seeing you... but I don't want you to think that this may turn into something more like we are about to start talking [slang for casually dating/hooking up]." me:"I had fun too (making out? yes. other stuff? a little lack luster).. yeah u never asked, I didn't think you like me either... umm yeah I didn't." I literally almost started laughing in his face...well his ear, but you know what I mean.
Looking back, its funny that he actually initiated that conversation considering that all his actions afterward completely contradicted that very statement. After that weekend, I think I saw him almost every weekend for the rest of the summer, if not more. But, the romance and heartbreak can wait until tomorrow.. because when I say this story is almost a saga.. I kid you not. Part 2 will be up very soon!! :-)
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