... I have work to do. School work. like... MBA, Grad School, type School work.
But what am I doing instead? Watching Season 1 of The Ghost Whisperer online...
I started doing some of my readings while at JOB #1 this morning.. but we were very busy and spider solitaire was challenging today.. sooo I think I got a good 2 paragraphs in.. yes!! Apparently I am in denial about the actual load of work I have to do for this week. Much like my most recent ex (the old man) is in denial about our break up.
Have you ever experienced that?
We were talking yesterday... actually it was more like early this morning.. and he kept referring to me as "his girl" and I had to keep reminding him .."no we're not together" him: "yeah I just can't accept that, I told you that you can't quit me." Um hi.. WHAT?!?
Is that how it works now? If one party objects, the other person's decision/desires/needs are now null and void? I feel as though I should be flattered in a sense that he doesn't want to let me go.. but he's still not changing anything either...sooo.. it's kind of like.. hmm maybe you just don't want anyone else to have me.. it may not even really be about me at all.. HAHA.. yea right! lol.. well...idk.. On a "funner" note, that guy I dated back in 08.. we'll call him.. hmmm Mr. Pisces (b/c he's a Pisces like me).. well he called today to reiterate to me that he wants to take me on a date sooner than later.. I'm a bit ambiguous about it simply because we were kindof close to starting something real and then.. ehh that's another post.. but anywho.. I'm intrigued to see if anything will come of this.. After dating someone so much older than me, I'm slightly ashamed excited ready interested happy ready to see what it will be like to date someone my age.
Audience Question(s)?? ++Have you ever dated someone w/a big age gap?++ How did it compare to dating someone closer to your age?++ Have you had someone reject your break up attempts?++ I'd love to hear about it!!
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I went out with a much older man when I was in my early twenties (he was in his mid thirties). I thought he was so sophisticated, even though he wasn't. He had a car, a house and a job (I was still a student). I fell madly in love but he didn't want a long term relationship (he still hasn't committed to anyone).
I went out with someone much much older last year. He was close to retirement age and he wasn't sophisticated. He was deaf and had arthritis. I felt like I was baby sitting my dad.
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When I was in my early 20's, 41 now, I dated several women 10 years older than I was. The oldest was 18 years older. They all seemed to have more "on the ball" than the women my age. I didn't purposely seek out older women, it just happened naturally through work contacts and other sources. If I hadn't gotten a major run around by the oldest one, I would have married her.
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